He lives a couple hours away from me and we talk enough but there are days when he doesn't. These could be possibilities why he disappeared. While others are mumbling and crumbling and grumbling, he is at his forceful, courageous best. I am so glad to hear that everyone is having the same concerns. If a Scorpio man suddenly disappears with no explanation, he could just not be interested in you. Right now he hasn't responded three days so kind of concerned. If he's pointing fingers for every problem that crops up in your relationship, he's trying to put the responsibility on you so he doesn't have to take accountability himself. She may stare across the room or look away when your eyes meet on your first date. I'm so lost please help. THE DAY HIKARI DISAPPEARS!THE DAY, WE SEARCH UNTIL TOMMROW!FAREWELL, TSURUGI . What does he want from me How would I knw he is lying to me(scorpio) he said he is not over his ex and need time to deal with his feelings. Nothing. When I was about to dump him he playa mind games - twist the whole thing, I mean I want to dump you and you acting stupid. Hi im a scorpio female and i have this habit of disspearing for a few days when im going through all the above phases. Conversations with him will feel like the world doesn't exist for him at all. I think Scorpios are very complex people. He did ask me many Time to come see him at the Gigs but i never went until last June. Scorpios usually act like this because they're super sensitive and afraid of getting hurt. So now it's been a bit over 2 weeks and I haven't heard from him, but I have been emailing him all the time and I know everyone said that I should ignore him. They feel everything! Hopefully, now he can apologize, or at the very least stop ignoring you. Yes, this is a scorpio, who claims to be in a homosexual relationship yet he's this possessive and jealous of me. Their fixed, feminine energy can come off as stubborn and reserved, but don't mistake their often quiet and secretive demeanor for passivity! So, they can go on for a good while after things have cooled off quite a bit. 1. My dad, brother and ldr bf are all scorps and my bf is triple scorp and I can tell u this is absolutely true for these guys! turned out a week later, he texted me that he got family problem, and i said..oohh..okay..and we chat like usual. No matter how sad you are, be happy and confident in whatever you do and you will soon catch his attention. it was monday and he said cannot because he has work. To be honest, I struggle with my inner feelings and thoughts regularly and, struggle to come to terms with them let alone trying to explain them. Ha,nice Guy. Keep this in mind so that you don't take his behavior personally. They are passionate creatures who love to communicate. They'd compliment my fashion sense, my work ethic, and tell me I'm the most interesting person they've ever met. Two weeks after the kiss, we continued to talk. A Scorpio man typically keeps himself inundated with lots of things to do. My period is late and I might be pregnant. I told him no and he was surprised. Water signs are emotional, and Scorpios are most sensitive of all. So when he is thinking about you, it is all about you. Part of me was over the moon with joy, but another part of me wanted to yell at him! They hone in on a project and become very obsessed. I am the type that gets smothered when a guy is constantly blowing the messages up or calling. When a Scorpio Male Hurts You Purposely #1: He doesn't want to meet people close to you #2: He refuses to hang out with you #3: He talks about sex frequently #4: He rarely opens up #5: He disappears out of the blue The Bottom Line Terms: When a Scorpio Male Hurts You Purposely #1: He doesn't want to meet people close to you 2. If your Scorpio man is distant after intimacy, he may have felt it wasn't what he expected or wanted. If he has decided to distance himself in preparation to leave you then he is making it easier for you. When alone, he may choose to focus his energy on something that builds up his self-esteem. During Mom's chemo and ups and downs, he was there for me any time of the day (he lives in Ireland and is 6 hours ahead) and I could call him at any time and he was there. I'm not going to blow his phone up and beg for him to talk to me if that's what he thinks. You can just imagine how much time that saves. When it's clear that your Scorpio man has gone from one hundred to zero, shift your focus. Compared to the scorpio where evrything goes down to sex, not many questions..just flirting and dirty talks Hi there I am a Scorpio also a boy. "Not only him, most of the Indians don't take tip for doing such thing, in fact we don't feel it's so big help, we grow up with . I don't think he respects me. I KNOW that he loves me - he told me he did two days ago in a phone call and then he didn't respond to my three texts today and I do that damn scales balancing act thing that I hate so much. Me and Scorpio make broke up after being together for 2 years. do I just go along with however he's feeling? He will make an effort to spend time with you. There is no one to compare with the Scorpio man. Piscean men don't like to end relationships and will simply disappear, whether completely or in part. And our conversation end with quarrel. Yes, a scorpio man is a one task at a time individual, so say that they have alot of things to accomplish in such a short period of time or they feel overwhelmed they tend to withdrawal a bit and it really takes a women whom is strong and can handle finding things to do on your own. I'm not guaranteeing it will change, though. I have determined that a Scorpio's withdrawal usually has one of five causes (though there may be more I have not yet discovered): He is in a situation that he has mixed emotions about and is acting distant until he sorts it out in his heart. The Scorpio man is one of the most emotional signs. He can't expect you to read his mind, but here's what he might be feelingand likely has been feeling for quite some time. So basically breaking up with me. When we met in person, sparks flew. I have a Scorpio issue for sure. We are not together, 50/50 shared responsibility for break up. People that get deep into head games need emotional control over someone. Then I get a long reply to my text were he doesn't see us going anywhere in a relationship because I can't communicate and I make funny faces and seem to take him as a joke and not seriously. @Sho - their is no possible chance of getting him back. Here's what . Now he says he loves me but it's not the same as it was. Both of us want to have control in relationship and we end up with fight. I always have a second thought about our relationship. They tell it all on a website or brood about it. A Scorpio man in love will want to share his thoughts and feelings with you, and he will be more willing to talk about the relationship. What's holding you back guys? Spill His Secrets Scorpios are naturally guarded and secretive. He basically begged for a second chance. Prove you are serious about it by talking about long-term plans. I honestly thought he was ghosting me. so, i tried and most of our convrsation will go down to sex. But I emailed him many times apologizing to him and saying that I loved him and asking him to forgive me but I did not get even one word back. demanding, all this good Things a Guy should have . I feel he did this because he was hurt because I shared my problems with others instead of going to him, I know he cares for me? I said in my emails that I know he loves me too and that he broke up with me out of anger and he should think about it and let me know, but I havent heard from him yet. Both times i had to hear from him via email that its over. i am with a scorpio boy , it's 13 months that we are with each other , yes i agree with all , he is so different with all , at first he flirted alot , after few month i fell in love with him & i told him & during the time this feel got more & more . He replied with the 'take care line' and that's it. 9) He plays the blame game. If you notice the Scorpio guy getting possessive about you, be sure that he is in love with you. He Is Also A Game Player. He may just be enjoying his alone time, pondering the meaning of life, or pouring himself into his passion projects. One of the things you should never do is bombard him with texts or calls. Mine came back after 5 years. Sarah, he might come back, depending if he loves you and realizes he made a mistake. It doesn't mean that he isn't into you or doesn't care. Make him WORK for you, if he wont then keep it moving as he will if it were you. I have a huge problem I was dating my best friend who is a Scorpio and he was such an amazing man. Mine always seems to have no time for me . They are direct and purposeful, independent and overall pretty happy. Like all water signs, Scorpio men love hard and forever, and feel things intensely. because both times I had said something that was questioning if I'll leave him he would want to end it first. They would tell me they'd see me and try to say hi but I wouldn't notice them. And if you told a certain girl that you like her very much or that she's special, does it mean your'e developing feelings for her already? He has difficulty maintaining relationships, and eventually, ghosting is the only recourse he can think of to keep the space needed for himself. Bottom line is, I am losing my mind and I need help. From my experience (both as a Scorpio and as someone who has dated several Scorpio men), I'm going to explain their peculiar behavior as best as I can. I've been dating a scorpio man for 3 months. Basically we only knew each other online and have made plans to be in a couple months. The Bug always tells me his Week Plans, work work work, shows up when promised at my Place always needs to go back home to his Dog. Too much of us isn't good. then when i texted him if he arrived to his work, he said yes. They are wonderful though, no doubt about it. P.S. Sometimes a hug and affection is of more value than sexual relations. He would say things like " you know i can't make you happy. Instant connection, we see each other daily, even talk about our future. He doesn't want to work on your relationship - he wants an excuse to end it. Or he "ghosts" and just disappears. But my question is will he come back to me? Mostly because they're afrai But that is okay with me because it gives me time to be alone and a chance to actually miss him. He is an emotional guy so ignoring him would only get him angry. We did, 10 days after she left and it was like we had known each other for years. He is very obsessive and jealous type of guy. But actually, they are great observers. Reasons Scorpio Man Makes You Feel Hurt. He'll especially spend time on things he's passionate about such as art, music, or even his career. He waited till Wednesday and texted 'Hey' I didn't text back I knew something was wrong and I was upset aswell. He Keeps Secrets From You Scorpios are secretive. Espesh if you're with a Scorp man for sure!! It's where you go out and enjoy yourself. A scorpio man will be faithful only if he is happy. I just want to know, How do I treat him in this situation? His eyes have been locking in on you. I don't know if he still likes me. & i saw him posts in other social app . The first thing and one of the best things to remember though, this is how the you may see . I live in Wisconsin. Scorpios along with being secretive, mysterious, sensuous and what not are very emotional. We sporadically texted over the next week or so, but I gave up because I noticed I was the only one initiating conversation, and after he ignored a snapchat I sent him, that was the last straw. Just because he doesn't tell you when you have hurt or upset him doesn't mean you haven't. It's not easy but I can say that if you are not confident in yourself then it will eat you alive. He does not show me his emotions , just during our fights says i care about you , i think about you , do not leave me & etc . I have always wanted True Love with a Woman. At first my feelings got hurt and I was quiet. nways, before our first meeting, i asked him to confirm our meeting but he didn't replied. As gemini once I feel things are changing I start worry. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on July 17, 2012: I have been hub browsing and it seems that a lot of people are having trouble with their scorpios. I just told him I was over the whole thing and we havent spoken since. He's confused. But I have a son who was looking up to him. This year, we finally met in person. My brother is a scorp, a close friend is, I have it as my rising sign, so I catch ,myself holding many of these qualities as well. Now i know he is so powerful , he is so confidence . Pretending everything is fine will only make him feel worse. Scorpio Detests Lying If you lie to your Scorpio lover, he will know it. i have told him early tht i'm looking more than just sex, but he said he prefers to go with the flow. The touchy-feely Scorpio man will make attempts to hold you and hug you if he wants to get close to you. I just don't have time to waste. male scorps). I love his jealous & possessiveness alot . I told him i just wanted to hang out with him like we agreed and I felt like he was being immature. He finally said "LEAVE ME ALONE, I DID THIS EASY AND CLEAN" Stop calling stop texting. He claims it was his fault, mainly due to withdrawing from depression, fear and self loathing. All it comes down to is whether hes a nice guy and whether both of you treat each other right, if not then end the relationship and move on (irrespective of whether or not hes a Scorpio and whatever your sunsign is ) . and chat our daily activities..not all the time, but had great conversation with him. There is very little I expect and very little that fazes me but the moment I get the whiff of disloyalty I will stake out my game and take him down he will never come up. Posted on February 2, the video has amassed 80,000 views. I'm going through the same crap. I refuse to take tesponsibikitu for HIS emotionaly irresponsibility. They infer by the expressions of your face what one would call mind readings. I cry a lot, he knows but i won't show him my Tears. And then. He feels burned or embarrassed and has withdrawn to nurse his wounds. He's not young, he should know I was a pissed female haha. I can't say anything to him. He may have been looking for a specific chemistry and didn't find it. how dos one know if he is really interested in you.. he barely talks, I am from United Kingdom England, I just want to share my experience with the world on how Dr Mack, help me, and got my love back and saved my marriage I was married for 3 years with a child and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and argued almost every time it got worse at a point that he filed for divorce I tried my best to make him change his mind & stay with me because I love him so much and dont want to lose him but everything just didn't work out he moved out of the house because it was a rented apartment and still went ahead to file for divorce I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The sun is currently in your 5th house which is the part of your chart which is all about having fun, it's about romance, and creativity, and children, your own or someone else is. Or he will suddenly have an "issue" where life seems overwhelming. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster who eventually helped me out I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly because I was desperate and left with no choice He did special prayers and used his power Within 7 days my husband called me and he said he was sorry for all the emotional pains he had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily and our child is happy too. Is this how Scorpio men behave? This allows time for your Scorpio man to miss you. Keep your individuality and don't be needy or whiny. But when I called him, I said that this wasn't fair that he was making the decision alone and that we need to talk so he needs to come talk to me and he responded IMMEDIATELY with 'OK!'. Without going into why he withdraws in the first place (more about that later), this is the best explanation I can give you for the stalker-to-stranger extremes. Have a life. I can guarantee you one thing: a Scorpio waits. We have flirted on and off throughout the last few years but never anything serious because we both have been in relationships. I am a venus in scorpio and I can vouch for this. and i just okay with it although a bit disappointing. Hidden in the tiring and mundane is a chance to transform your prospects in a delightful way. Again, as a Capricorn I am secretive and I didnt want it to be something all of our acquaintances knew about. Like the fall of a paper airplane or (more appropriately, since, ya know- Scorpio) an artillery shell. I am a sadge sun otherwise and not in the least clingy or demanding. Magnitudes of a difference between each stage. I always give him space even when I don't need vis versa. Long story short - i asked him whether he was seeing someone and he replied yes, but he only went out for one date only. I cant figure out whats going on. This is extremely accurate for my male best friend who is a Scorpio! And if you don't remember the first few times you tugged on his tail, because his response wasn't memorable, wellthat's not his problem. Thoughts? Complex for sure, but no more so than any other sign. When they feel threatened or fear they will be gravely injured, they often retreat. I have no idea what happened with my scorpio male.he just suddenly changed. When a Scorpio man takes you in completely as in loving you you ultimately become their possession until you betray them. As a Scorpio woman, I believe theres at least one more reason which is missing in that list: Scorpio Man wants to feel absolutely in control and indispensable. These planets govern war, aggression, sexuality, and deep transformational change. 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